Modern Manners for the 21st Century

Respect

Technology has revolutionized the way we live and communicate but it doesn’t mean basic etiquette and respect for each other should be thrown out with the analog TV and landline phone. Here are 8 tips for navigating the digital world with class.

Cell Phones: How did it become the norm to give more importance to the person calling you than the person who actually made an effort to be with you? Honor those in your presence and turn off the cell in restaurants, movies, concerts, church, etc.

Reply All: In a world of information overload we could all use a few less emails. Do your part and avoid unnecessary use of the “reply all” button.

Twitter: No one wants to be irrelevant but a recent survey found that users believe that 40% of tweets are pointless. Be part of a meaningful dialog and use your words and posts to add value to the world.

Narcissism: Bragging about yourself online may be easier than ever (”What are you doing?”) but it’s still just as insufferable as it is in person. Humility may be uncommon but it’s refreshing and draws others to you.

Conflict: Research has shown that email brought with it more passive aggressive behavior, manipulation, sarcasm, and depersonalization. Simply put, don’t deal with conflict online.

Photos: If a photo of a friend isn’t flattering and you know they wouldn’t want it plastered on a billboard, don’t post it online.

Headset: It’s great while you’re driving, but your Bluetooth device is not an accessory. Once you’re finished with your phone conversation, take it off.

Personal Space: Loud ringtones, a glowing screen in a dark theater, someone inexplicably yelling into a cell phone. We’ve all witnessed “that guy” so let’s strive hard not to become him by simply being aware of others around us.

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